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Thoughts on Loneliness

Loneliness Something that many of us are very afraid of. It's an image that paints a dark picture: an isolated self, a room and dreary decor perfectly suited to our situation. It depends on what picture your mind paints. My image separated from the outside world is my future self. I had no friends, no family, no boyfriend to heal my heart in desperate times.

However, here is the catch. Such is not the reality of loneliness. Loneliness is what we are all about: an emotional state where – even when we are surrounded by others – we feel immersed in our own negativity and cut off from the outside world.

 

I can vouch for that. When I was in the darkest corner of my mind, I couldn't see anyone else - it was just me. This is the scary reality of loneliness.

 

What I'm trying to say is this: I was caught up in my thoughts and lost in this "dark corner". I wondered if I was the only one who felt this way. I wondered if I would ever find my place in this world.

 

I could not contact anyone.

 

No one could understand me. So, I was alone in the bustling metropolis. All I had was me and myself and my self-righteous mind, so I thought.

 

But really, I had everything I needed: friends, family, a good team at work - and so on. I was blinded by my view of the world. I couldn't imagine that joy would ever fill my heart again. I felt like I deserved everything.

 

Who exactly would think of such a bleak existence in solitude? I say who I am: I, who don't want to admit that I am a man: a man worthy of love.

 

So, my negative emotions flooded me with all kinds of nonsense.

 

My sick mind invaded my heart. The only way to conquer your self is to learn to love yourself.

What causes loneliness?

Everyone may have their reasons: Someone may not want to come with the horror that surrounds him. A man who falls into society's crevices and sinks too deep to come out.

 

This can make it very difficult to do anything.

 

Solving the problem may require more energy.

 

These people have nothing but themselves. They are overcome by the ugliness of the world.

 

Feelings of loneliness and real loneliness can be created by many factors. Life can be torn apart by depression and anxiety. It can be created by the cruelty of others. Or it may be due to a disability—physical or psycho-physical—and a feeling of being the only one in our inner circle.

 

As we all know (unless we live on a desert island or the moon), this is not true. There are many others who struggle with the same disabilities or difficulties.

 

I remember myself as a young man; I clearly had some mental issues. I hated myself.

I hated my situation. I don't know why I can't be like everyone else. People my age had achieved more than me: work experience, relationships, social prestige, grades - their futures seemed bright.

 

I felt like I couldn't connect with anyone. I was lonely. But not alone. However, I felt alone. My mind was a desert island. Nothing but me as a resident.

 

I can't understand why.

 

That was until I was diagnosed in my 20s. Only then did life begin and I was able to commit myself and my circle of friends. Now, finally, after years of patience, I have found people I can relate to.

 

In the following years the isolation gradually decreased and became a thing of the past. Solitude, on the other hand, is something I've come to love.

 

This new energy conquered loneliness, befriended me, accepted loneliness as a perspective. I also like being with friends though.

 

A balanced life is the best of both worlds.

Solitude is empowering

Being alone and learning to find inner peace is the scariest monster anyone can tame. We can be our own worst enemies. But we can learn to be our best allies. By doing this, we can conquer the world and remake it for ourselves.

 

This will be the start of a wonderful union. Union between two "I's". Between light and darkness. When we balance ourselves, we find love for ourselves and become who we are meant to be: explorers of ourselves and the world. Only then our soul awakens. Only then can we truly use this power to free ourselves from fear.

 

Fear is always there. You can fight only if you have this fear. By learning to fight this fear, you can find the courage to explore the beauty of the world and enjoy its many opportunities without depending on anyone.

 

Those who realize how strong and capable they are, soon realize that being alone can be a blessing rather than a curse.

 

Such psychology (thinking that loneliness is a curse) can come from someone who did not have time to know himself, because he was afraid that he would be left alone in the future. Thus, finding an unconscious "fix," they quiet down before they even meet their true selves.

 

It usually happens at a young age. They seek their saviors (from among themselves) and hope to keep them for life. But that happens only after they both evolve — or one evolves and the other doesn't — and the relationship no longer floats on the smooth surface of the ocean. This may be because one person gets tired of predicting the other.

 

Soft waters change: they become turbid, uninhabitable and rather shallow.

 

Loneliness, on the other hand, is something else. It is an environment that allows you to walk the desert path until you find inner peace. Such people are proud to discover their truth, engrave it in their souls, and know their shining values.

 

They create themselves before looking for the right social circle for life. A person who wants to build their own house before accepting alternative designs from another mind.

 

By running the solo marathon of life for a long time, we can chart our path, explore it and its wonders, and dive deep into our heads and hearts. We know who we are in our head and in our heart.

 

It helps us to understand who can accompany us on our life path.

 

Solitude offers a great opportunity to build self-confidence and improve mental health. Dependence on others, such as spouses, reduces our ability to build our own infrastructure to protect against mental darkness, because (when) this person evolves and leaves, we are left with ignorance and sad loneliness.

 

This is because we may lack our unique defense mechanisms to help fight these dark periods.

 

Trusting yourself means forcing yourself to train to slay the dragon. The dragon is terrifying. He's big, strong, full of rage - one wrong move and you're done. However, if you tame a dragon (fear), it will rarely appear, and when it does, you can tame it.